National Reconciliation Day which occurs on April 2nd each year urges us to repair relationships that have been damaged through words or actions. We all know of a relationship where a misunderstanding caused friction. Eventually or suddenly the relationship was destroyed. Time passes and before long, years pass and not two words have been spoken between the two people. They may be siblings or parent and child. Childhood friendships dissolve in an instant over angry words. Friends often immediately regret the cause of the quarrel but don’t know how to start over.
Over time, feelings of resentment, bitterness, and anger cause more than the loss of friendship. These feelings add to health problems and also infect other relationships in our lives. The act of reconciliation requires some giving to achieve a peaceful balance. Someone must make the first move to break down the barriers that have been built. And while forgiveness may be a part of the conversation, it isn’t necessarily a requirement.
How can you observe National Reconciliation Day? This day encourages us to take that first step and make amends. It’s not too late. Reach out to that friend or loved one and make a fresh start. Maybe you aren’t ready to talk them yet. Try writing a letter or an email.
This day was started by newspaper columnist Ann Landers, who in 1989, in response to one of her reader’s letters, began annually promoting April 2nd as Reconciliation Day. She encouraged her readers to repair their broken relationships and dedicated each April 2nd column to letters concerning just such relationships.
With the Coronavirus and the Stay At Home Order that begins tonight and all the uncertainty that surrounds us. This seems like the best time to observe this day. You never know what tomorrow brings. Stay safe!